The next time you talk to a guy you like, use these ten tips.
And we can guarantee you, these tips will make you more desirable than you can ever imagine!
If you’re wondering how to talk to a guy or what to talk to him, no, you don’t really need to change your conversations for him.
You just need to play by a few simple rules.
Guys like all girls, but they like a few girls a lot more.
And guys like these girls more because they make the guy feel special. Learn how to talk to a guy and make him like you and you’ll see the difference.
The next time you’re talking to a guy you like, smile more often. Giggle at his jokes, smile now and then for no particular reason and bring that sparkle in your eyes. After all, when you’re happy, it shows. And no guy can resist a girl with a beautiful laugh!
Be coy and graceful
Through the ages, women have loved chivalrous men, and men have loved graceful, coy women. Now, there’s a big difference between being a shy timid girl and a girl who’s coy. Even to this day, guys love coy, graceful girls. So be that one. Twiddle your hair when you’re being thoughtful, have your own cute expressions, bat your twice instead of just once every time you close your eyes.
All these make you very lovable and aww-sho-cute! Learn to be a lady, and the guys will love to become your knight in shining armor.
Men have always been drawn to the gentle, tender touch of a girl. Even scientific research has shown that guys involuntarily start showing more interest and flirt more with girls who touch them in the middle of a conversation. Occasionally, touch his forearm or place your palm on the edge of his shoulder, or any other place that would be appropriate for casual touches, and you’ll see how his interest in you would grow in no time.
Seek his protection
Throughout evolution, men have always been the hunters and the protectors while women have been the farmers and the foragers. When you rekindle this primal instinct in a guy, he would appreciate it and love it. Reach out and hold his arm while crossing the street, smile shyly and ask him if he can hold a heavy book for a minute, hold his hand as a big, scary dog comes near you, etc. You know the works, make him feel like your protector. And he’ll want to be by your side all the time.
Don’t badmouth or bitch
Girls who are use foul language all the time are quite a bit of a turn off for most guys. Now if you’re Debra Morgan, that’s a whole new story because she knows how to be vulnerable, cry and be strong and independent at the same time. But for all other girls, try to avoid using bad language all the time. Additionally, don’t bitch about other girls or speak nastily about coworkers and passersby when you’re walking on a street.
Guys find mysterious girls a tad annoying, but they can’t help falling in love with them. You don’t need to tell a guy you’re with every single emotion or thought that’s going through you. If you’re looking lost or if he catches you smiling to yourself, and asks you about it, you can just tell him it’s nothing. Don’t reveal everything that goes on in your mind or you’ll just become boring. A note of caution though, you can’t do this to your boyfriend. He’ll think you’re having an affair!
There’s nothing better than a girl who can be shy and coy, and show off a streak of mischievousness now and then. It’s always nice to lighten things up now and then with a few pranks. You can tease him, nudge him by the shoulder, say a few jokes, or all of the above. Guys like a girl who is all sweet is cute and nice, but it can get pretty boring after a while. Show him your naughty side too.
This is one of the qualities of a good natured, sweet girl that all guys want. If you want to know how to talk to a guy, keep this in mind. Be nice, good natured and polite. Mind your P’s and Q’s, and be nice, not just to him, but to the people around you. You can try to be pretentious and fake when you’re with him, but then, it’s not easy. Instead, learn to be a genuinely nice person and it’ll only make him want you more.
If you use all the tips mentioned here, you’ll be a very likeable girl who’ll be desired by all guys. And the guy who likes you may try very hard to please you and impress you. And if some guy’s trying to make you feel nice, appreciate the gesture. Most girls take these things for granted, and over time, the guys will stop paying attention to them. Really now, if someone does something nice for you, don’t you think they deserve a thank you, or at least a smile? Never forget that.
Play hard to get
Always play hard to get if you want to make him like you. Knowing how to talk to a guy is easy, but knowing where to draw the line is not. Speak to guys in a pleasant manner, but never let them take you for granted. And don’t ever be easily available. That only makes them take you lightly.